Think Win-win

Think win-win is when it benefits both people.
Think win-lose is when it only benefits one person.
Think lose-lose is when it benefits no one at all.

If you make someone else lose to make yourself win then you really are making yourself lose just as well if you keep doing this then in the end you will feel bad for what you did and you will lose too. So now it is think Lose-lose because you both lost.

Dont be a door mat- stand up for yourself. If your the mat then you are being used and abused prevent that dont let that happen.

Also be aware of the tumor twins. Compete and
compane, it can be good but it also can be bad.
Don't take things too far. We are all different it
will eventually become a part of who you are
for the rest of your live.

Win-win spirit: If you have troubles thinking win-win then dont just play the game as if you do it normally wont turn out that well. So the spirit will encourage you to think that way it will show the way one step at a time.


You shouldnt hide your feelings discuss them with someone else and you will feel alot better and you will feel like someone and the pieces should in the end be properly put all together.